--- title: The “P” Word by Julie Filby description: The “P” Word by Julie Filby --- [![catholic-mom-logo-v2](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/images/catholic-mom-logo-v2.svg "catholic-mom-logo-v2")](https://www.catholicmom.com/) [![facebook](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-facebook.svg)](http://www.facebook.com/CatholicMomCommunity) [![twitter](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-twitter.svg)](http://twitter.com/CatholicMomCom) [![instagram](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-instagram.svg)](http://instagram.com/catholicmomcommunity) [![youtube](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAuUqHCVPDzyMgSMaMZxxug?view_as=subscriber) [![search-icon](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/search-icon.svg)](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/2010/08/19/the-p-word-by-julie-filby#) # The “P” Word by Julie Filby Aug 19, 2010 1:00:47 PM  |  by [Guest](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/author/guest) [![](https://www.catholicmom.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/filby_julie-109x150-3.jpg?width=109&height=150&name=filby_julie-109x150-3.jpg "filby_julie")](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/filby_julie-4.jpg)One morning last fall, Vaughn woke up complaining that her neck hurt. That was a new one. Diagnosing our 3-year-old daughter generally requires a little detective work to determine if something is really wrong, or if she’s simply displaying her passionate side (she’s been known to be a touch dramatic from time to time). She didn’t have a fever or any other symptoms. She got kisses (from both Mom and Dad, usually one or the other works), still not happy. I put a band-aid on it, didn’t work. I even offered to take her for donuts after Mass. Still howling. All signs pointed to her actually not feeling well. I gave her Motrin and got her all set up in the car with just the right blanket and babies and we headed out to take Quinn to [school](http://www.stmcatholic.org/). In the car on the way, I explained to Quinn that if Vaughn and I didn’t make it to Mass (the all-school Mass on Friday morning), he would know why: Vaughn wasn’t feeling well. Quinn responded with wisdom and insight... **Quinn:** Mom, you know what she needs. **Mom:** What? **Quinn:** You should know this, Mommy. **Mom:** Oh, I do. I just want to know what you think. **Quinn:** It’s a "p" word. **Mom:** Program? *** * **Quinn:** Mommy! P-p-uh…… p-p-p-uh…… pr-pr-pruh. **Mom:** Prayer? **Quinn:** Mom, you should’ve known that. **Mom:** You’re right, buddy. I’m so glad I have a 6-year-old around to remind me to give these things to God. The Bible says: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God" ([Philippians 4:6](http://www.usccb.org/nab/bible/philippians/philippians4.htm)). Telling a mother not to worry can be a stretch but making prayer the *first choice*, versus the last resort, helps immensely. It’s the best course of action, the best stress reliever, the best coping mechanism. By the way, Vaughn was fine. 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