Scripture: Lectionary # 354. March 8: Tobit 2:9-14. Psalm 112: 1-2.7-8.9.
 Mark 12:13-17
Family life has its struggles even in the Bible where we see disagreement
 in a wife and her husband. This is seen in Job and all the moreso in the
 devotional and pious narrative in Tobit. The story is fiction but it has a
 clear theodicy as its motivation. It tires like Job to figure out why God
 permits evil and how do we accept sufferings when we feel we are innocent
 and do not deserve it. Or as one rabbi put it in his book why do bad
 things happen to good people? The writer of the story is unknown and
 desired to remain anonymous. He is skilled in the art of description and
 knows how to keep his story moving with some interesting situations and
 colorful characters within the development of the story. One of the great
 new personalities to whom we are to get to know is Raphael who is the angel
 or messenger of God who brings healing to Sarah the unfortunate would be
 bride of many suitors; they all die! But you must read the story for
 yourself since our lectionary readings from Tobit will abruptly stop
 tomorrow because of the approach of Ash Wednesday and Lent.
Today we zero in on the tense episode in the life of Tobit and his unnamed
 wife, Mrs. Tobit. She comes out more as wholesome and righteous in the
 scene that we are privy to. Humor helps us get through the drama with a
 smile on our face. Tobit is brought back to his senses by an honest and
 trustworthy wife. She has earned some extra income through her hard work
 and is even rewarded with a goat. Tobit hears its bleating and asks her
 about how she got this goat presuming that she stole it. He rashes judges
 her even though he is first presented as a pious and holy Israelite. Then
 he displays his anger and continues to believe she has stolen the goat.
 Though he is scrupulous, he is also lacking good judgment and trust in
 others especially his wife. Little things often create some of the biggest
 quarrels in family life in our experiences but also in those who are long
 past and only remembered as people with similar family squabbles--even in
 the holy Bible or even in the deuterocanonical book of the Bible. Some
 Bible readers are unaware of these deuterocanonical works and thus miss the
 humor and adventure so characteristic of real life. Tobit, of course, has
 missed the bigger picture and caused the irruption of peace with his wife,
 Mrs. Tobit.
Mrs. Tobit is not a weak woman. She gives it right back to the
 unjustifiable words and behavior of pious Tobit. She does this in rapid
 fire with a few questions and then a powerful closer: "Where are your
 charitable deeds now, Mr. Tobit? Where are your virtuous acts? Your true
 character is finally showing itself!" Harrumph!
Our Psalm centers on Tobit but should be focused on Mrs. Tobit who is the
 righteous one in this scene. She is industrious, honest, and clearly right
 and outspoken in her rejoinder. Perhaps, we need this comic relief before
 the onslaught of Mardi Gras and the approach of Lent. Amen.
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