--- title: High Hopes description: During this first week of Advent, Deanna realizes she is not alone in her desires and cravings and that hope is possible. --- [![catholic-mom-logo-v2](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/images/catholic-mom-logo-v2.svg "catholic-mom-logo-v2")](https://www.catholicmom.com/) [![facebook](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-facebook.svg)](http://www.facebook.com/CatholicMomCommunity) [![twitter](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-twitter.svg)](http://twitter.com/CatholicMomCom) [![instagram](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-instagram.svg)](http://instagram.com/catholicmomcommunity) [![youtube](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAuUqHCVPDzyMgSMaMZxxug?view_as=subscriber) [![search-icon](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/search-icon.svg)](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/2014/12/03/high-hopes#) # High Hopes Dec 3, 2014 9:30:47 AM  |  by [Deanna Bartalini](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/author/deanna-bartalini) [![first week of advent hope candle](https://www.catholicmom.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/first-week-of-advent-hope-candle-550x365-1.jpg?width=550&height=365&name=first-week-of-advent-hope-candle-550x365-1.jpg)](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/first-week-of-advent-hope-candle.jpg) The season of Advent is upon us and I have some very high hopes it will be spiritually fruitful. It has been a difficult six months and every time I think the difficulty has passed, it rears up again, causing me to despair, daring me to hope. In some ways I have lost hope or decided that I have the power and control to make what I hope for happen. To make it happen right now, before something happens again. And I don’t. On Sunday, I read, ***“At a certain point in life, the profound desires and cravings of our heart reach a point of eruption in us. Yet at the same time comes the awareness that we cannot bring about what we want – we do not have inside us what is needed to fulfill and satisfy our longings. And so, with our infinite yearnings we turn to the Infinite and cry, “Oh, that you would rend the heavens and come down.”***” *From Magnificat, First Sunday of Advent, Mass introduction.* Much to my disappointment, there has been an eruption. One eruption would have been enough; there have been quite a few more than one. Before I read the above, I was out alone, running errands and thinking about the latest eruption. What was at the heart of the problem? Please God, show me because I can barely stand myself at this point and I know someone else who probably feels the same way. And he answered me. My spirit was still troubled but I stopped thinking about it and moved forward. And then before Mass I learned that it isn’t just me with these desires and cravings that just won’t go away. And that God knows and cares and hears. Now I have to do my part. It’s not complicated, but it will take discipline. I sometimes stink at discipline though I know it has rewards. **My focus is on rending my soul, so it may be filled with what the Incarnation brings.** *Do you have a particular area you are working on this Advent? Please share it with us if you’d like and know that I will be praying for all of our yearnings.* *Copyright 2014, Deanna Bartalini* ### Share this article [![Share on Facebook](https://static.hubspot.com/final/img/common/icons/social/facebook-24x24.png)](http://www.facebook.com/share.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F12%2F03%2Fhigh-hopes%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Dfacebook) [![Share on Twitter](https://static.hubspot.com/final/img/common/icons/social/twitter-24x24.png)](https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?original_referer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F12%2F03%2Fhigh-hopes%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Dtwitter&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F12%2F03%2Fhigh-hopes%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Dtwitter&source=tweetbutton&text=High%20Hopes) [![Share on Email](https://static.hubspot.com/final/img/common/icons/social/email-24x24.png)](mailto:?subject=Check%20out%20https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F12%2F03%2Fhigh-hopes%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Demail%20&body=Check%20out%20https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F12%2F03%2Fhigh-hopes%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Demail) ** #### About the Author ![Deanna Bartalini](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/Deanna%20Bartalini%202025-1.png) ### [Deanna Bartalini](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/author/deanna-bartalini) Deanna G. Bartalini, M.Ed., M.P.A. is a certified spiritual director, retreat leader, speaker, and writer with decades of experience serving the Church. She is the founder of [LiveNotLukewarm.com](https://LiveNotLukewarm.com), works on the retreat team at Our Lady of Florida Passionist Spiritual Center, and is an Unbound prayer minister. 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