

"The impact of one life is like a stone dropped into a lake, it quickly disappears from sight - but its impact leaves behind a series of ripples that broaden and reach across the water. In the same way, the impact of one life lived for Christ leaves behind an influence for good that touches the lives of many others." - Roy LessinWe are called to use our time, talent, and treasure to glorify the Lord. However, most people don't know intuitively what our talents are unless someone else they trust and respect tells them. Had it not been for my parish priest telling me that my ability to proclaim the word of the Lord as a lector when I was a tween, my talent would have been undiscovered. For a shy, introverted girl who had no idea what God-given talents I had, he planted the seed of confidence to speak in front of the entire parish. That seed of confidence blossomed into a budding career as a television journalist and motivational speaker, and now a ministry in which I share tips for using technology as an evangelization tool at Catholic conferences. When my head began to swell from all the notoriety, I asked him for advice. How do you remain humble? He said "When you receive Communion, both species, whisper, 'Jesus meek and humble of heart make my heart like your heart.'" It is a practice that continues to help me always remember it is God and not me who deserves the praise for my talents!

When my father died, it triggered deep depression in me. It was again this holy priest who sat with me, listening, praying, and consoling me in throes of grief. He even had to counsel me about standing in judgement of my mother, whom I felt didn't do enough in caring for my daddy. I moved away and stopped speaking to my mom. She told Fr. Tom about it and I'll never forget him calling me to say, "I have counseled hundreds of couples and you have no right to stand in judgement of your mother. No one ever knows what is shared in the bonds of a marriage that affects how they interact with one another." My grief was so deep that it caused me to question God's will - my desire to even want to live without my Daddy, but he brought light into this dark time in my life and restored my faith.
He served as my spiritual director, conferred the sacraments of Confirmation, Reconciliation, Anointing of the Sick, and Marriage as a part of his role in my life. I am a member of the baby boomer generation: We enjoyed the blessing of having our parish priests for generations. The shortage of priests and new term limits associated with a pastor's tenure will no longer facilitate the role of a priest in the lives of families who remain in the parish for generations like mine. This year in the Archdiocese of Los Angeles over twenty-five priests have died so far this year. It is likely that we will continue to see more priests from different parts of the world to fill the void until the numbers of U.S. seminarians rise.
His death was just days before Missionary Sunday and one of his nieces posted a tribute on her Facebook page:"On this Mission Sunday I remember the missionary that had the most influence on my life. Rest in peace Uncle Tommy" - Kate Acton



Priests used to be regarded as holy, supernatural, and above reproach. Following the bombshell revelations of the priest scandal in Boston, that all changed. My mother was not Catholic, but always respected Fr. Tom and had spirited conversations with him. She always helped us to know he was just a man working for Christ full-time. When he was elevated to monsignor under protest, he said he "just wanted to serve the people as a humble priest." I recall at one of our monthly dinners him saying that someone spat at him when they saw him in his clerics. He was devastated by the thought that so many people indicted all priests for the misdeeds of so few!
My dear sweet Fr. Tom was not perfect nor pious, but personable: a person whom I will miss and pray for every day of my life's journey ahead, but especially this month. May I humbly ask you to pray for him too? Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord. And let the perpetual light shine upon him. And may the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen. Rest in peace Msgr. Thomas Acton.Copyright 2018 Sherry Hayes-Peirce
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Sherry Hayes-Peirce
Sherry Hayes-Peirce is a Catholic social media influencer, digital media strategist, blogger, conference speaker, podcast guest, and contributing author of the Ave Prayer Book for Catholic Mothers. She serves as a lector at LMU Los Angeles. She is a parishioner at American Martyrs Catholic Community in Manhattan Beach, CA, serving as Lector, Eucharistic Minister, Bereavement Minister, Earth Angel, Sisterhood Team Ministry, Widows Ministry, and Adorer.
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