--- title: The Graceful Art of Crossing the Stage description: David and Mercedes Rizzo describe a surprising way in-school support aides help special-needs students. image: https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/0522-Rizzo-F.jpg --- [![catholic-mom-logo-v2](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/images/catholic-mom-logo-v2.svg "catholic-mom-logo-v2")](https://www.catholicmom.com/) [![facebook](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-facebook.svg)](http://www.facebook.com/CatholicMomCommunity) [![twitter](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-twitter.svg)](http://twitter.com/CatholicMomCom) [![instagram](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-instagram.svg)](http://instagram.com/catholicmomcommunity) [![youtube](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAuUqHCVPDzyMgSMaMZxxug?view_as=subscriber) [![search-icon](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/search-icon.svg)](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/2019/05/22/the-graceful-art-of-crossing-the-stage/#) # The Graceful Art of Crossing the Stage May 22, 2019 11:00:44 AM  |  by [David and Mercedes Rizzo](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/author/david-and-mercedes-rizzo) ![featured image](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/0522-Rizzo-F.jpg) [!["The graceful art of crossing the stage" by David and Mercedes Rizzo (CatholicMom.com)](http://catholicmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/0522-Rizzo-1.jpg)](http://catholicmom.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/0522-Rizzo-1.jpg) Copyright 2019 David and Mercedes Rizzo. All rights reserved.[/caption] It’s that time of the year when students and their parents celebrate graduations, awards, and other opportunities for recognition. It seems so simple to walk across the stage, shake a few hands, and receive your award. And to many people, it truly is that simple. However, for others, it can be a complicated and monumental task. Our daughter Danielle, who has autism, is one of the people who doesn’t find this quite so easy. For starters, ceremonies such as these tend to be very crowded. Many people with special needs find large crowds to be frightening and overwhelming. Also, it’s complicated. You have to stand in line quietly, often go up a set of steps, wait for your name to be called, walk across the stage, shake hands and acknowledge the teachers, principals, or others that are there. Finally you take your award and return to your seat. That is a long list of things to do and many people with special needs can get confused. When we heard that Danielle would be receiving an award at her school, of course we were excited, but also fearful. The chances of Danielle completing all the steps she needed independently were very low. On the other hand we knew that if she were provided with the proper supports she could be successful. Danielle has been fortunate to have teachers and aides who care about her and help her learn many things that she would be unable to do otherwise. Some of the supports they put in place at the award ceremony included standing with her in line, keeping her interested and focused, and gesturing for her to walk where she was supposed to go -- at the correct time. They practiced the whole thing including how to do a proper handshake well before the ceremony took place so she would not appear awkward. We were so proud watching Danielle receiving her award and doing it with grace and charm. Everything went off the way it was supposed to thanks to the help and support she was given. --- *Copyright 2019 David and Mercedes Rizzo* ### Share this article [![Share on Facebook](https://static.hubspot.com/final/img/common/icons/social/facebook-24x24.png)](http://www.facebook.com/share.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2019%2F05%2F22%2Fthe-graceful-art-of-crossing-the-stage%2F%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Dfacebook) [![Share on Twitter](https://static.hubspot.com/final/img/common/icons/social/twitter-24x24.png)](https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?original_referer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2019%2F05%2F22%2Fthe-graceful-art-of-crossing-the-stage%2F%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Dtwitter&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2019%2F05%2F22%2Fthe-graceful-art-of-crossing-the-stage%2F%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Dtwitter&source=tweetbutton&text=The%20Graceful%20Art%20of%20Crossing%20the%20Stage) [![Share on Email](https://static.hubspot.com/final/img/common/icons/social/email-24x24.png)](mailto:?subject=Check%20out%20https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2019%2F05%2F22%2Fthe-graceful-art-of-crossing-the-stage%2F%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Demail%20&body=Check%20out%20https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2019%2F05%2F22%2Fthe-graceful-art-of-crossing-the-stage%2F%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Demail) ** #### About the Author ![David and Mercedes Rizzo](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/Contriubutors/DAVID%20AND%20MERCEDES%20RIZZO.jpeg) ### [David and Mercedes Rizzo](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/author/david-and-mercedes-rizzo) David and Mercedes write and speak from a faith perspective as parents of a child with autism. They are available to speak, and have appeared on radio and other media. Visit [DavidAndMercedesRizzo.com](http://davidandmercedesrizzo.com) to learn more. Follow them on Facebook at [Autism With The Rizzos](https://www.facebook.com/pages/Autism-With-The-Rizzos/281489198616138?ref=tn_tnmn). Authors of *Praying For Your Special Needs Child*, (Word Among Us Press) and [*Spiritually Able* and *The Adaptive First Eucharist Preparation Kit*](http://www.loyolapress.com/search-result.aspx?s=rizzo) (Loyola Press). ## Related Blog Articles [ The Infamous High-School Yearbook Photo Read ](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/2018/05/23/the-infamous-high-school-yearbook-photo/) [ "Everyone Has The Potential To Give Something Back" Read ](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/2018/04/25/everyone-has-the-potential-to-give-something-back/) [ Entertaining Angels Read ](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/2019/09/25/entertaining-angels/) ## Comments ## Donate now [![Support Catholic Mom](https://no-cache.hubspot.com/cta/default/275132/10016573-1c5c-4aa5-baba-c2ac91fe7545.png)](https://cta-redirect.hubspot.com/cta/redirect/275132/10016573-1c5c-4aa5-baba-c2ac91fe7545) [![CatholicMom_hcfm_logo1_pos_871c_2728c (002)](https://www.catholicmom.com/hs-fs/hubfs/CatholicMom_hcfm_logo1_pos_871c_2728c%20(002).png?width=1806&height=731&name=CatholicMom_hcfm_logo1_pos_871c_2728c%20(002).png "CatholicMom_hcfm_logo1_pos_871c_2728c (002)")](https://www.catholicmom.com/) ##### Subscribe to Catholic Momcast on iTunes or Spotify [![itunes-logo-black](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/logos/itunes-logo-black.svg)](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/catholic-momcast/id1362352357)[![spotify-logo-black](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/logos/spotify-logo-black.svg)](https://open.spotify.com/show/15CoipHL7z61IDcYErV0b8?si=hqaQJSxDQgq7S1hxCwsoxQ) ##### CatholicMom on Social Networks [![facebook](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-facebook.svg)](http://www.facebook.com/CatholicMomCommunity) [![twitter](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-twitter.svg)](http://twitter.com/CatholicMomCom) [![instagram](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-instagram.svg)](http://instagram.com/catholicmomcommunity) [![youtube](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAuUqHCVPDzyMgSMaMZxxug?view_as=subscriber) ##### About Catholic Mom [Who We Are](https://www.catholicmom.com/about-us) [Contact Us](https://www.catholicmom.com/contact) [Support CatholicMom.com](https://www.catholicmom.com/support-us)   ##### Associated Links [Holy Cross Family Ministries](https://www.hcfm.org/) [Family Rosary](https://www.familyrosary.org/) [Family Theater Productions](https://www.familytheater.org/) [Congregation of the Holy Cross](https://www.holycrossusa.org/) [Father Patrick Peyton, C.S.C.](https://www.fatherpeyton.org/) [The Peyton Institute for Domestic Church Life](https://www.peytonfamilyinstitute.org/) ### **Stay connected!** Don’t miss a thing! 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