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Lately, I have been tuning into a lot of podcast that talk about how to encourage more womanly bonding and togetherness. In a world where we are constantly over-scheduled and overly committed, how do we find the time to come together and just be? Even where women are together especially in times where kids are around, our quality time is usually split up by wiping up a spill, helping with a bathroom break or snack, so what might have been a “play date” for moms and kids really is a "play do."
As a mother of three girls, and a full-time high school teacher, I cherish that time to get together with my girlfriends to just sit and be. Between my own busy work schedule and my kids' after-school commitments, it becomes harder and harder to find the time. What’s even worse is when I do have free time away from my kids I want to be selfish with where and who I spend my time with, because frankly that time is precious.
Yet today interaction is needed more than ever. So how do we find the time to “make time”? Here are a few tips that I’ve come to learn that help when building a mom community.
Copyright 2019 Andrea Bear
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Keep your expectations low.
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Don’t overplan.
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Multi-task your mom-time.
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Guest clean vs. friend clean.
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Don’t get discouraged if your friends can’t meet the first time you invite them.
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Pray about it.
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Get out there.
What other ways can you build mom community time?
Copyright 2019 Andrea Bear
About the Author
Andrea Bear
Andrea Bear is a wife, mom, and teacher in Stockton, California. In addition to CatholicMom.com, she also writes for HerLife Magazine and Catholic Stand. She recently completed her debut novel, Grieving Daughters Club. When she's not writing or taking her kids to volleyball practice you can find her sipping coffee from the neighborhood coffee establishments or tasting wine from the local vineyards. Visit AndreaBearAuthor.com.
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