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One of our children, disappointed in not being accepted into a certain college, later flourished at another. One daughter, passed over for a dream job, landed a position much better designed for her. One child suffered heartbreak, recovered, and learned more about real love. We experience disappointments, make terrible decisions, and travel over rough terrain, yet if we are open, the Spirit somehow works through them, making us wiser, stronger, more loving, and closer to our Lord.
As parents and grandparents, we name grace — God’s advocating presence — by speaking of the Holy Spirit’s gracious works. In order for our children to trust in the Spirit, they must understand that God is good all the time, and works continuously on their spiritual behalf. “Pray for the Spirit’s wise counsel when making a decision.” “I just know God has something better planned for you.” “God is calling you closer to Him through this experience.” With the Holy Spirit, stumbling blocks become stepping stones, obstacles become strength builders, and “the sea becomes dry land.”
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Laura’s advocacy saved Freddy’s life in that critical moment, but best of all, Laura advocates for her children’s spiritual good. Each person needs an earthly advocate, but even more important is our heavenly Advocate, the Holy Spirit. As parents and grandparents, we wisely lead our children to the Holy Spirit — the Parent, Friend, Teacher, Healer — who is always with them, loving them, and advocating for their eternal good. We have an Advocate for life! Now, that’s good news!
How has the Holy Spirit advocated for your spiritual welfare?
How will you advocate for your child’s spiritual good?
Copyright 2020 Mary Pedersen
About the Author

Mary Pedersen
Mary Pedersen serves as "first preacher" to six and grand-preacher to ten! She holds a doctorate in preaching from the Aquinas Institute of Theology, with her thesis, "Parents as First Preachers: Naming Grace in the Domestic Church." She writes and speaks on topics of faith and family, and has been known on probably far too many occasions, to shout out a woo-hoo! Mary blogs at MaryPedersen.com.
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