Barb Szyszkiewicz reviews the spiritual memoir of a mom of five whose daughter experienced a traumatic brain injury.
As a kid, I used to borrow Reader's Digest Condensed Books from my grandmother. I skipped over the adventure novels and romances in favor of family stories, especially the family memoirs that centered on children battling serious illness or overcoming challenges due to cerebral palsy, paralysis, or other circumstances -- and then there was that one particular book about the family who adopted 19 kids, most with physical challenges.
I think such books would be harder for me to read now that I'm a mom. Childish curiosity would be replaced by empathy, because I know what it's like for moms whose children face serious illness. I am one of those moms.
I eagerly read Julie Overlease's memoir, Hope Upon Impact, even though I knew it covered that difficult topic: a mom suffering through, praying through, and powering through her sixth-grade daughter's traumatic brain injury (TBI) after the child was struck by a large falling tree limb.
Hope Upon Impact, recently published by Paraclete Press, is a combination spiritual memoir and medical miracle story. As I read this book, the community support that the Overlease family received after Evelyn's accident stood out to me the most. Having endured two lengthy, critical, and overlapping medical crises in my close family this fall, I recognize the little and big ways people reached out to us. The church, school, and sports communities surrounding the Overlease family definitely took care of that family in a big way, and it was uplifting to see.
At the end of the book, the author quotes a homily from a priest at her parish, Fr. Justin Hamilton:
Everything we encounter in life is exactly what God knows is best for us, no matter how disagreeable or hard it is to embrace. That's not at all to say that some things, like losing a loved one, dealing with a chronic illness, or losing one's job are objectively good things. Rather, God is able to take painful, challenging events like this and apply them to our lives in such a way that they are transformed into the very best thing for us, the catalyst for the deepest growth, the best way to purify our love and sharpen our faith, if only we would embrace them just like He embraced His cross. The key to this is finding God in these moments, knowing that He is always present in our lives, if only we look for Him and ask Him to reveal Himself. (181)
Hope Upon Impact is an amazing story of God's providence, community support, and family strength.
Copyright 2020 Barb Szyszkiewicz, OFS
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About the Author
Barb Szyszkiewicz is a wife, mom of 3 young adults, and a Secular Franciscan. She is editor at CatholicMom.com. Barb enjoys writing, cooking, and reading, and is a music minister at her parish and an avid Notre Dame football and basketball fan. Find her blog at FranciscanMom and her family’s favorite recipes with nutrition information for diabetics at Cook and Count.