Five Ways to Begin Living Liturgically (Without Getting Overwhelmed!)

What is liturgical living? Sarah Damm explores simple ways to allow the rhythm of the Church calendar to shape our hearts and homes. 

A simple search for “liturgical living ideas” often showcases perfectly decorated home altars, elaborate crafts for saint days, and decadent recipes for feast days. While beautiful, these images and posts can also feel intimidating for a busy mom.

How am I going to do all of this when I barely have time to get dinner on the table?

Years ago, as a young mom, I wanted to find ways to incorporate faith into our family life. But I knew I needed ideas that were simple to execute.

Eventually, I realized that liturgical living is not meant to be complicated. At its heart, liturgical living simply means allowing the rhythm of the Church calendar to shape the life of your heart and home.

Liturgical living is about praying with the Mass readings, noticing how each liturgical season teaches us something about daily life, and incorporating customs and traditions that draw us closer to the Lord and deeper into the beautiful heritage of our Catholic faith.

We don’t need elaborate crafts or perfect plans to begin! We can start with one small step:

One prayer.

One feast day.

One tradition.

What Does It Mean to Pray and Live the Liturgical Year?

The liturgical year is more than a calendar. It unfolds the whole mystery of Christ over the course of the year (see Catechism of the Catholic Church 1163). Each liturgical season guides us step by step through the life of Christ:

• His birth (Advent and Christmas)
• His earthly life and ministry (Ordinary Time)
• His Passion, Death, and Resurrection (Lent and Easter)
• Going to Confession once per month, no matter the season
• Praying a family Rosary once a week throughout the year
• Lighting the Advent wreath during Advent
• Praying the Stations of the Cross on Fridays during Lent

Guided by the Church Calendar

Instead of letting the busyness and noise of the world shape our days, we invite the cycle of the Church’s calendar to guide our lives. We do this in two ways: 

Liturgical prayer:

We pray with the daily Mass readings and consider how they personally speak into our lives in that particular moment of the Church year.

Liturgical living:

We allow the liturgical seasons to guide how we live out what each season has to teach us. For example, we learn how to wait with hope, how to carry suffering with Christ, and how to rejoice in the victory of Christ’s Resurrection.

Incorporating liturgical prayer and liturgical living into our spiritual lives doesn’t require a complete overhaul. A few small practices can root our lives in the rhythm of the Church year.

Five Simple Ways to Begin Living Liturgically

Let the Gospels Guide You

One of the simplest ways to begin praying liturgically is to spend time with the daily Mass readings. Let the daily Gospel unite your day to Jesus and the current liturgical season.

Follow a simple form of lectio divina, or divine reading, by reading slowly and noticing words or phrases that stand out. Ask yourself simple questions like:

• How does this Scripture passage relate to the liturgical season?
• What might God be saying through this passage?
• How might He be inviting me to respond?

Create a Seasonal Prayer Space in Your Home

Another way to pray liturgically is to create a space that reflects the current season of the Church.

This doesn’t need to be elaborate. A small table, shelf, or corner can become a place for prayer.

Add visual cues as reminders of the season. For example, during Advent, place an Advent wreath on a purple cloth. During Lent, add a crucifix or other image of the Passion. During Easter, flowers and white candles reflect the joy of Christ’s Resurrection.

Follow the Feasts — Choose One Each Month

The Church calendar is full of beautiful feast days. But it is not necessary to celebrate all of them. Instead, choose one feast day each month to honor.

You might display a holy card in your prayer space on a saint’s feast day, place flowers next to Mary’s statue during the month of May, or pray a novena for a special intention leading up to a feast day.

As these simple celebrations become meaningful markers in the year, you can slowly incorporate more feast days into your routine.

Add One Simple Tradition at a Time

One of the easiest ways to become overwhelmed with liturgical living is to try to start too many traditions all at once.

Instead, choose one simple practice to begin during each season. Over time, they will gradually create a rhythm of traditions in your family’s life. For example:

Just remember, you don’t need to add everything at once! One step at a time will build holy habits.

Pray in Rhythm, Not Perfection

Perhaps the most important thing to remember is that liturgical living is not about perfection.

The liturgical year gently guides us through the seasons of our own lives — waiting, change, suffering, celebration — with wisdom that transforms our lives and then slowly shapes the atmosphere of our homes too.

But liturgical living doesn’t begin with perfect plans, and it doesn’t require crafts.

It begins with one prayer, one season, one tradition that steadily draws us into the life of Christ and the beauty of His Church.

For more simple liturgical living ideas, explore my free guide, Praying the Liturgical Year.

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