The Virtue of Magnanimity: Generosity with a Humble Heart

Anne DeSantis explores the often-overlooked virtue of magnanimity, discussing three ways to cultivate this virtue in everyday life. 

Magnanimity is a beautiful yet often overlooked virtue in our Catholic walk. It comes from the Latin magnus anima, meaning “greatness of soul.” To be magnanimous is to be generous, kind, and noble — especially toward someone we might consider an opponent, someone we’ve outperformed, or even someone who has wronged us. 

In today’s world, winning and losing seem to dominate the narrative: in schools, in business, even within families. But as Catholic women and mothers, we are called to see others not through a worldly lens of competition, but through the eyes of Christ. Here are three ways to cultivate the virtue of magnanimity in everyday life: 

Practice Humility 

True magnanimity begins with humility. Saints like Saint Thérèse of Lisieux, Saint Teresa of Calcutta, and Saint Pier Giorgio Frassati lived out this virtue with quiet strength. They recognized that all good things come from God, not from personal merit. When we are humble, we’re able to offer compassion and kindness without expecting anything in return — even to those who may have hurt us or fallen behind in some worldly measure of success. 

Give Credit Where It’s Due 

No one rises alone. Our accomplishments are shaped by the love, support, and sacrifices of others: spouses, parents, children, teachers, mentors, and friends. A magnanimous heart acknowledges this truth openly. Recognizing others’ contributions not only honors them, but reminds us to live with gratitude. And above all, we give glory to God, who is the source of all goodness and grace. 

Persevere in Doing Good 

Magnanimity isn’t a one-time act. It’s a way of life. It means continuing the good work God has begun in us — not for accolades or recognition, but out of love. As mothers, caregivers, professionals, and disciples, we are called to serve with joy and to lift others up, even when no one is watching. This spirit of generous love transforms ordinary life into something holy. 

In the end, magnanimity is about choosing greatness — not in the world’s sense, but in the Gospel sense: greatness in love, greatness in humility, and greatness in generosity. 

As the Catechism of the Catholic Church reminds us: 

The practice of all the virtues is animated and inspired by charity, which "binds everything together in perfect harmony." (CCC 1827) 

With God’s help, may we strive for greatness of soul and reach the finish line of life ready to hear the words: “Well done, good and faithful servant.” 

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