Explore the challenge of letting go of worldly attachments to embrace eternal life, trusting in God's presence and plan amidst life's struggles.
Today's Gospel: John 12:24-26
Have you ever heard of a monkey trap? Evidently, you can trap a monkey by putting a treat in a container with an opening small enough to fit their empty hand. Once the monkey reaches in to grasp the treat, their fist won’t fit back through the opening. Unless they’re willing to let go of the treat, they’re trapped. The monkey gives up his freedom to have the thing he thinks he wants.
Today’s Gospel makes me think of that trap. Jesus says,
“Whoever loves his life loses it, and whoever hates his life in this world will preserve it for eternal life.”
If we hold on tightly to the things we think are valuable in this life, we might risk losing what’s eternally valuable in the next.
This means that we have to let go of control and lean into trust that God is working in our lives to bring good out of bad. We have to rest in the confident knowledge that God is present and acting in our lives to draw us closer to Him and bring about our sanctification.
But it’s not easy to trust God when you really want something in this life. It’s not easy to trust Him when things in your life are going sideways. It’s not easy to trust that He will bring good out of bad when you’re grieving and in pain.
Whether you feel God’s presence or not, He is present. Whether you feel His love for you or not, He loves you. And, whether you trust that He is working in your life or not, He is.
The challenge we have is to let go of the things of this world that are trapping us and enter into the freedom of life with God.
Ponder:
Am I holding onto this world too much and losing sight of the greater treasure that is eternal life?
Pray:
Lord, help me to see Your plan in my life and grow in trust that You will bear fruit even when it looks to me like I’m losing my life instead of gaining eternal life.
Pray Together:
Plant a sunflower seed together as a family. Observe how one seed dies to produce many, many seeds. Discuss what would have happened if the one seed had never been allowed to produce fruit in the flower.

Copyright 2026 Laura Nelson
About the Author
Laura Nelson
Laura B. Nelson is a Catholic wife and mother of three children. She is also a Catholic author, speaker, Catechesis of the Good Shepherd catechist, and full-time Coordinator of Children's Faith Formation. Laura likes to be busy but she most enjoys spending time with her husband and three children at their home in Grapevine, Texas. Find out more about Laura at LauraBNelson.com.

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