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Discover the importance of stewardship and hard work through a personal reflection on parenting, inspired by the parable of the talents in Matthew's Gospel.


Today's Gospel: Matthew 25:14-30

Thirty years ago, we bought a small farm in Maine. Here was a place to raise our three children. This was not an easy transition for me as a city girl. My husband believed that farm chores would help develop a solid work ethic. I decided to go along with the plan.

Soon, our lives were filled with Nubian goats, chickens, and vegetable gardens. I watched as the children learned how to milk goats and gather eggs from the chicken coop. They witnessed the birth of goats and the horror of a weasel that rampaged through our flock of chickens. Always, there was work to be done.

Matthew’s Gospel rolls out one parable after another. Today’s story is the parable of the talents. The lesson is about stewardship, warning against the dangers of sloth. A man goes on a journey and entrusts talents to his servants. Two of the servants invest wisely. The third buries one talent in the ground, earning no interest. The master returns and rewards the wise servants. He severely chastises the slothful servant.

“And throw this useless servant into the darkness outside, where there will be wailing and grinding of teeth.”

I did not know of this parable when we moved to Maine. I did not know the value of hard work. Growing up in the Boston suburbs, I thought a chore meant popping bread into the toaster and buttering it all by myself. I had plenty to learn in life.

A wise Catholic commentator once said that we become our habits. As young parents, we did our best to teach the kids the satisfaction of hard work. Like the master in this parable, we are on a pilgrimage. May we hear at journey’s end,

 “Well done, my good and faithful servant.”

 

Ponder:

Do I teach my children that manual labor done in a cheerful spirit is pleasing to God?

 

Pray:

Heavenly Father, help me to be a good example to my children. Remind me to not complain if things don't go my way, but rather teach me to be always thankful.

 

Pray Together:

Start the day in gratitude with a smile and a hug. Say specifically what you love about a family member, especially if it has been a tough day.

 


November 15


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