Last year, my dad, comfortably retired, announced his New Year’s resolution was to “do more”. I, an overwhelmed mother of four, joked back and vowed to do “less.” However, it’s proven to be a very good idea – and one that I forget easily. I’ve learned that it’s not about how much or how little we “do”, it’s about the amount of love we live our lives with.
Since we’ve started a new liturgical year and New Year’s is just around the corner again, this is a good time to think about how we can “start fresh” and live our lives more deeply for Christ. The word “resolution” comes from the Latin resolutio-/resolution, from resolvere, meaning "to loosen or dissolve again…" (source).
So when making “resolutions”, instead of thinking about everything you’re going to “do”, maybe think about the ways you can “loosen” up and relax a little.
I’m not very good and committing to absolute bans for myself but I can set a good ‘plan’ of what things I’d like to work on. Here are my Advent & New Year’s “Resolutions”:
More YOU - Jesus & others.
More down time.
Less “hurry, hurry!”,
More patience and stress-preventive organization.
Less yelling in anger,
More pausing, cooling down, & thinking before opening my mouth.
Less lecturing and nagging,
More listening and supportive problem-solving.
Less belittling and tearing down,
More love-motivated and encouraging discipline.
Less whining about the work I have to do,
More offering my housework as a prayer for others.
More intentional & focused time with husband and kids.
Less mindless scrolling,
More intentional interaction & genuine relationships.
How about YOU? I love hearing about other people’s resolutions!
Copyright 2013 Erika Marie