--- title: Developing Inter-Generational Relationships description: Do you have a mentoring relationship that has benefited your life? Lisa Schmidt discusses the importance of inter-generational relationships for at-home moms. --- [![catholic-mom-logo-v2](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/images/catholic-mom-logo-v2.svg "catholic-mom-logo-v2")](https://www.catholicmom.com/) [![facebook](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-facebook.svg)](http://www.facebook.com/CatholicMomCommunity) [![twitter](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-twitter.svg)](http://twitter.com/CatholicMomCom) [![instagram](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-instagram.svg)](http://instagram.com/catholicmomcommunity) [![youtube](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAuUqHCVPDzyMgSMaMZxxug?view_as=subscriber) [![search-icon](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/search-icon.svg)](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/2014/05/05/developing-inter-generational-relationships#) # Developing Inter-Generational Relationships May 5, 2014 3:00:38 PM  |  by [Guest](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/author/guest) **Back in my working professional days, I had a mentor who met with me often.** She and I actually befriended one another through a women's group at church, so not only did we have our careers in common, we also shared a similar faith tradition. Sometimes our chats happened over a coffee date. Other times we made a jailbreak from our offices and met for lunch. Then there were the occasional let's-skip-out-an-hour-early-and-enjoy-a-nice-libation-while-lounging-on-some-restaurant's-patio type of get together. Those were fun! ![Developing Inter-Generational Relationships](https://www.catholicmom.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/Developing-Inter-Generational-Relationships-533x400.jpg?width=533&height=400&name=Developing-Inter-Generational-Relationships-533x400.jpg) My friend is fifteen years older than me yet I never felt like she viewed herself as the seasoned professional and me the new kid on the block. Given we both worked in male-dominated fields, she was a terrific sounding board and cheerleader. Her femininity was a breath of fresh air, a constant reminder that the board rooms and council chambers I sat in could greatly benefit from my womanly approach to problem solving. Our conversations were balanced, equal parts talking and listening. Advice given, advice received. I like to think that my friend received as much out of our talks as I did. We even occasionally discussed how I just might be a good candidate to succeed her once she retired. But those succession plans took a detour when I was the first to ["retire"](http://thepracticingcatholic.com/2013/04/06/my-forrest-gump-moment/) to stay at home full-time with my babies. When I made that decision, our frequent mentoring meetings then also retired. And as I write those words, I realize just how much I miss those chats with my friend. Now that our chats are over, I miss growing from her wisdom. I miss our "professional" conversations. **My mind has wandered back to those days after recently listening to the [IF:Gathering podcast on inter-generational relationships](http://ifgathering.com/blog/story/if-podcast-jennie-allen-and-debbie-eaton-on-inter-generational-relationships/#.U2GiyOZdUXh).** My mentor and I were blessed with the very kind of inter-generational relationship discussed on that podcast. Since leaving the workforce, however, I've noticed that mentoring relationships for at-home moms aren't as organic and naturally occurring as they were in the professional world. I agree with the opinions shared on the podcast that women are indeed craving mentoring relationships. So what's the point of all this? Honestly, I'm not quite sure (*brilliant, Schmidt, brilliant!*). I'm tossing around some thoughts and I'd like to hear about your experiences with faith-based mentoring, especially for the at-home moms in the crowd. **Do you have a mentor? Conversely, are you a mentor? How did your relationship begin? How has the relationship benefited your life?** *Copyright 2014, Lisa Schmidt* ### Share this article [![Share on Facebook](https://static.hubspot.com/final/img/common/icons/social/facebook-24x24.png)](http://www.facebook.com/share.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F05%2F05%2Fdeveloping-inter-generational-relationships%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Dfacebook) [![Share on Twitter](https://static.hubspot.com/final/img/common/icons/social/twitter-24x24.png)](https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?original_referer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F05%2F05%2Fdeveloping-inter-generational-relationships%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Dtwitter&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F05%2F05%2Fdeveloping-inter-generational-relationships%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Dtwitter&source=tweetbutton&text=Developing%20Inter-Generational%20Relationships) [![Share on Email](https://static.hubspot.com/final/img/common/icons/social/email-24x24.png)](mailto:?subject=Check%20out%20https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F05%2F05%2Fdeveloping-inter-generational-relationships%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Demail%20&body=Check%20out%20https%3A%2F%2Fwww.catholicmom.com%2Farticles%2F2014%2F05%2F05%2Fdeveloping-inter-generational-relationships%3Futm_medium%3Dsocial%26utm_source%3Demail) ** #### About the Author ![Guest](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/Profile%203.jpg) ### [Guest](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/author/guest) We welcome guest contributors who graciously volunteer their writing for our readers. 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