My family's relationship with Our Lady of Mount Carmel began six years ago when my oldest daughter was entering second grade. Days leading up to Our Lady's feast day on July 16, she asked me if she would be enrolled in the [Confraternity of the] Brown Scapular, after she received her First Holy Communion.
I was blown away by her question, because I didn't know she knew what that meant! I barely knew what that meant! When I made my First Holy Communion, that wasn't part it. And unfortunately, I still didn't know enough about the brown scapular to include it in my devotions. But it wasn't too late, right?
Since my daughter asked the question, particularly during the week leading up to the Feast of Our Lady of Mount Carmel, which I don't think was a mere coincidence, I promised her we would talk to our pastor about the possibility of enrolling together.
Our pastor was more than happy to oblige. And after Mass one Sunday, my husband Greg, my two oldest daughters, and I were enrolled in the Confraternity of the Brown Scapular. It was a very special moment in our family's spiritual life together.
Our Blessed Mother promised that all who wear the scapular will not suffer the flames of hell. Many conversions and healings have been reported from wearing the scapular. I especially love this sentiment from the blog Truth Himself:
The scapular is an external sign of the filial relationship established between the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother and Queen of Mount Carmel, and the faithful who entrust themselves totally to her protection, who have recourse to her maternal intercession, and who are mindful of the primacy of the spiritual life and the need for prayer.” (Directory on Popular Piety and the Liturgy, 205)
Fast forward a few years, we moved homes and parishes. The small chapel in our new parish was dedicated to Our Lady of Mount Carmel. Inside, there was a beautiful statue of Our Lady as well as of St. Therese of Lisieux. As a family, we adopted the tradition of adding "Our Lady of Mount Carmel, pray for us" to the end of our Grace Before Meals.
Last summer, as our parish honored Our Lady of Mount Carmel, two more of my children were enrolled in the Confraternity. After Mass, they celebrated with a delicious brownie dessert in the shape of a scapular, which could easily be replicated at home.
Prayer to Our Lady of Mount Carmel
O Most beautiful flower of Mount Carmel, fruitful vine, splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me in this my necessity. O Star of the Sea, help me and show me herein You are my Mother. O Holy Mary, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and Earth, I humbly beseech You from the bottom of my heart to succor me in this necessity. There are none that can withstand Your power. O show me herein You are my mother.
O Mary conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to Thee. (3 times)
Sweet Mother, I place this cause in Your hands. (3 times)
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Copyright 2015, 2016 Sarah Damm. This article was originally published at sarahdamm.com in 2015.