

Welcome one another, then, as Christ welcomed you, for the glory of God. Romans 15:7That's when it clicked: I'm not that other family's keeper; but I am my children's keeper. In fact, that's the primary goal of my vocation as their mother. All that time and energy I was willing to invest helping that other family needs to be redirected to my own kids. Yes, I should still have an open door policy for others. But if I haven't kept an open door for my own children first, I'm loosing the focus of my motherhood. I need to be willing to drop what I'm doing to pay attention to what my kids need. Even if what they need seems trivial to me, it matters to them. If I want them to come to me with the big things when they're older, setting the tone now with the little things is imperative. Back when I ran retreats for moms, I constantly talked to the mothers about putting on their own oxygen masks first, before taking care of their kids. If they weren't breathing, they wouldn't be much use to their families. I need to take that a step further for myself. I need to put on my own family's oxygen mask first, before I head out the door to help anyone else.
Copyright 2018 Claire McGarry
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Claire McGarry
Claire McGarry is the author of Grace in Tension: Discover Peace with Martha and Mary, and the Lenten family devotionals With Our Savior and Abundant Mercy. Claire is a regular contributor to Living Faith, and her freelance work has appeared in several books, magazines, and devotionals. She blogs weekly at Shifting My Perspective, and lives in New Hampshire with her husband and three children. Follow her on Facebook, Instagram, and Amazon.
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