

Mama, You Aren't a Mistake
The other day I came across a quote from Saint Zelie Martin. It is real and it is raw it is everything I have ever felt.Oh well, that’s the day so far, and it’s still only noon. If this continues I will be dead by this evening! You see, at the moment, life seems so heavy for me to bear, and I don’t have the courage because everything looks black to me.Zelie Martin worked from home. She bore nine children and buried four. She guided five intense, headstrong young women into the religious life. One is now a saint. A second has been declared Servant of God. The other three are under vibrant cause for canonization. All raised by a woman who is now a saint herself, who at times felt she had no courage to go on. This gives me great hope and it should do the same for you. Because the truth is, God looked at you, and He looked at your children, and He put the two of you together in his divine, infallible wisdom. When we are feeling weary, or beaten down, or discouraged we must remember: He has placed us in this moment and in this situation for a reason. Our job is to believe Him and to carry on as such.
A Quick Self-Help Guide for the Weary Catholic Mom
Focus on Psalm 139
You are beautifully, wonderfully made. Yes, you. Surely the God who has loved you from the beginning of time would make you perfectly as he desired. This is something you need to take to heart.You formed my inmost being; you knit me in my mother’s womb. I praise you, because I am wonderfully made; wonderful are your works! My very self you know.
Banish Imposter Thoughts
The belief that you aren't good enough? That you are actually a fraud? That is a desolation, and it doesn't come from the God who loves you. It comes from the enemy who is trying to tear you down. Fight off those thoughts in a concrete way with a running tally of your accomplishments. Can't think of anything special? Look at the kids who love you more than anything. That's an excellent start right there.Read About the Life of St. Zelie
Honestly, you can't go wrong. Reading her letters is like seeing a mirror image of your own life story. It will fill you with abundant hope.Immerse Yourself in God's Goodness
There is nothing wrong with self-care. Pray the rosary. Do an online retreat if you can't go to a physical retreat location. You can also check out my 5-minute meditations for weary Catholic moms.So I forgot about the preschool picnic, and maybe you did, too.
We are still the perfect creation of the perfect God who loves us. Take a deep breath, mama, and listen for Him. He knows what He's doing. I promise.How do you build yourself up when you are feeling in the trenches? How do you cope as a weary Catholic mom?
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About the Author

Ginny Kochis
Ginny Kochis is a Catholic wife and homeschooling mom to three differently-wired children. She founded the Not So Formulaic community to support Catholic moms raising out-of-the-box kids. Ginny believes God gives curious, creative, intense children the exact mother they need to thrive.
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