For your family: Carry Your Loved Ones with YouThis idea just came to me this year, but I love it. My son, who is dressing as a cowboy, is already working on getting into character. His step-mom sent me a photo of him wearing his plaid shirt, blue jeans, and dinner plate-sized belt buckle. I gushed over the cuteness in the photo but then teared up when I read the text that went with the photo. “The belt buckle is his dad’s grandfather’s. He doesn’t want to take it off.” What better way to celebrate the lives of our loved ones who have passed away than to carry part of them with us when we go to our parties or door-to-door asking for candy. Could you work your great-grandmother’s hair pin into the next princess costume? Maybe your son’s detective costume could be topped off by your favorite uncle’s old hat that’s been sitting in a box on the closet shelf. What a wonderful way to remind our children that these family members are always with us and we should be praying for them to be fully with Christ as saints!
For your friends: Text-to-PrayHow do we tell our friends and neighbors about All Saints Day and All Souls Day? Yes, if a tiny Saint Teresa of Calcutta rang their doorbell, I’m sure they would think she is adorable and it would fill them with all the feels. But is there a teaching moment we’re missing out on? What if you sent a text like this to some friends, “Happy Halloween! Is there someone you love who has died that we can pray for? I know that’s a strange question, but because we’re Catholic, after Halloween we celebrate All Saints Day and All Souls Day, so we’d be happy to pray that your loved ones who have passed away will be in Heaven. Lemme know!” You might get some strange responses or even ignored. As Catholics, we are different. Some might even say weird. But hey, being weird is what Halloween is all about!
Copyright 2019 Abby Watts
About the Author
Abby Brundage Watts is a mother of two little boys. Since January of 2008 she has hosted The Big, Big House Morning Show on Spirit FM 90.5, the radio ministry of the Catholic Diocese of St. Petersburg in Florida. The show mixes inspiration, humor and family fun (and great music of course)! You can hear Abby every weekday 6-10am, EST and online at www.myspiritfm.com. She also is the co-creator of the podcast, Perhaps This Is the Moment. You can find it on all the podcast platforms.