

The Importance of Connection
No matter how you feel about Valentine’s Day, I think we can all agree that from time to time, it is really important to connect with our spouse. In the midst of family life, marriage can end up in last place on our list of priorities. More often than not, helping with homework, buying new shoes, or tending to illness or tween tears takes the place of quiet conversation, going out for coffee, or getting away for a weekend with our spouse. After a while, this lack of connection takes its toll on our own spiritual and emotional needs as well as our relationship’s well-being. So, this Valentine’s Day, let’s make it a priority to reconnect with our spouse. Perhaps Valentine’s Day can be the springboard for more regularly-scheduled times of connection.Simple Ways to Connect With Your Spouse This Valentine’s Day
Here are a few simple ways to connect with your spouse. These ideas require no preparation and very few resources.Share Your Heart
Provide a sheet of paper and pen to you and your spouse. Take time to answer the following prompts:- I appreciate that you …
- I honor you for …
- Please pray for me ...
Pray Together
Taking the cues you receive from the exercise above, make it a priority to pray for one another, individually and also together. If you don’t regularly pray with your spouse, this could be a great time to begin. Here are a few easy steps to get started:- Make the Sign of the Cross
- Thank God for each other
- Pray for the things each of you asked for in the exercise above
- Pray for your children
- Close with the Lord’s Prayer, a Hail Mary, or a Glory Be
- Make the Sign of the Cross
Play a Game
Put away Candyland and Go Fish, and dust off a game that requires strategy, insight, and intelligence. Make a batch of popcorn to go with the candy hearts, and have some fun with your spouse. Here are a few games that you might find in the back of your game closet and a few new ones to add to your wish list or to give as a Valentine’s Day gift:Plan a Date
Now that you and your spouse have spent part of Valentine’s Day reconnecting, take some time to plan a date. Pick a day and time. Hire a sitter, if necessary. Write it on the calendar (in ink). Some simple (and affordable) date ideas include:- Going to a movie
- Eating at a new restaurant
- Bowling
- Seeing a play at the community theater
- Ice skating or snowshoeing
- Visiting a museum
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Sarah Damm
Sarah Damm is a Catholic wife and mother of six children, living in Minnesota. She spends her days running errands, helping with homework, and keeping up with laundry and the family schedule. Sarah loves her faith, coffee, and good books. You can find out more about her at SarahDamm.com.
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