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"Quid pro quo" by Claire McGarry (CatholicMom.com) Image credit: By Lina Trochez (2017), Unsplash.com, CC0/PD[/caption] Now that my kids are older, and especially since going back to work, I've transferred a lot of chores and tasks to them. I want my kids to learn to pull their own weight. I don't want them to become entitled, like so many of their generation. Also, in all honesty, I need their help in order to survive. Yet, what I'm finding is that the more time passes, the more I'm raising them in a quid pro quo style: "I do this for you ... So, you do that for me." Although it's working, this Scripture passage makes me doubt my approach, and my motive.
"When you have done all you have been commanded, say, 'We are unprofitable servants; we have done what we were obliged to do.'" (Luke 17:10)
I've always struggled with Luke 17:7-10. Even the subtitle, "Attitude of a Servant," rubs me the wrong way. I'm okay serving when I have the energy and desire, but I don't want to be anyone's servant. I certainly don't want to be bossed around like I'm someone's slave. So how do I come to terms with Jesus' command? As usual, it's a perspective thing. If we look at what we do as a service to others, we eventually grow bitter, especially if the giving tends to go just one way. Instead, we need to recognize that all our doing should be done for God. Feeding our children is feeding Him. Caring for our friends in need is caring for Him. Giving to our communities is giving back to Him. The real truth is: We'll never reach a true quid pro quo with God. He gave far more to us than we can ever give to Him: He gave us His only begotten Son who then gave up His life to save our souls. It's time to leave the quid pro quo approach by the wayside. God's not requiring us to pay back a thing. Instead, His completely selfless giving should inspire us to emulate His approach with everyone in our lives.
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