Pilgrim to Pilgrim: A Couple's Walk to Mary

Frances Smit shares the story of a couple with a quiet, yet contagious, spirit of service.

On a crisp first Saturday in May, Jody and John Kuiken arrive at the National Shrine of St. Joseph in the suburbs of Green Bay, wearing their best walking shoes. It’s early morning and still dark out as the first pilgrims check in for the annual Walk to Mary. The Kuikens prepare to answer questions and assist last-minute registrants for the annual 22-mile trek on foot from DePere along the bay to Champion, Wisconsin.  

The destination of the Walk to Mary is the National Shrine of Our Lady of Champion (OLC), where the Blessed Virgin Mary appeared to seer Adele Brice in 1859. This is the only apparition in the United States that the Vatican has declared worthy of belief. 

As year-round volunteers at the Shrine, Jody and John Kuiken work with hundreds of other volunteers to make the Walk to Mary memorable for all the pilgrims. Every year, the Kuikens have seen an uptick in this Marian devotion that, at first, was local to devotees from the Green Bay area and Wisconsin. But as faith tends to do, it spread beyond local borders.  

This past May, the Kuikens saw a record turnout of 7,500 people from across the state and country, including six international visitors.   

They have likewise seen a steady growth of pilgrims to the Shrine. There, they welcome visitors not only during the Walk to Mary but throughout the year. Like the growth of participants in the Walk to Mary, OLC had the largest number of summer visitors to the Shrine in its history. 

Promising Beginnings 

John and Jody’s journey together and to Our Lady of Champion started when they met in college at the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point.  

When John asked Jody on a date, her yes to the date was followed by, “Would you like to attend Mass with me?” 

How should a young man who left his Christianity behind respond to a pretty woman whom he wanted to date?  

Yes!  

When Jody took him to the Newman Center for Mass, John quickly sensed something was different from his prior experiences at the United Church of Christ.  

He knew Jesus was there. And it changed his life. He declares his first Mass to be a St. Paul-like conversion.  

And unlike many converts from Protestant denominations who stumble over Catholic theology of Mary, he had no trouble with it, finding Marian devotion beautiful. John joined the Catholic Church four months before the two were wed in 1972.  

Pilgrimage of Life 

As volunteers, John and Jody welcome visitors to Our Lady of Champion, the place where they themselves were first-time pilgrims in the early 2000s. 

On their first visit, the peacefulness of OLC and the sense of Mary’s presence struck them. About 20 years later, it was this peace that became a major factor in their decision to move to DePere, Wisconsin, from Wenatchee, Washington, to dedicate themselves to volunteering in retirement.  

John and Jody work at the Shrine every Wednesday and on special occasions, welcoming new and returning pilgrims, supporting employees and fellow volunteers in the café, and performing administrative tasks. 

Spreading Faith 

Since they began volunteering at the Shrine in October 2020, the Kuikens have become part of the growth that made OLC no longer a Shrine famous only to the locals.   

They were on-site last summer when the Marian Eucharistic procession passed through OLC en route from Minnesota to the Eucharistic Congress in Indianapolis, Indiana.  

John and Jody themselves followed the pilgrimage to Indianapolis. “To experience the Congress with over 60,000 other pilgrims was incredible,” they said. 

This year, Our Lady of Champion was designated a Jubilee Year Pilgrim of Hope destination. These newsworthy events have increased the Shrine’s popularity. 

Yet, in their day-to-day conversations with pilgrims, John and Jody discover that most visitors come to the Shrine after hearing about the place from a fellow parishioner or friend. Faith spreads from person to person, by word of mouth. Like leaven, faith feeds off of, grows and stretches, spreads and swells, from one neighbor to the next. 

Volunteer Spirit 

Supporting others through spiritual and corporal acts of mercy is a way of life for John and Jody. John mentors younger members in a Catholic men’s group, Esto Vir (Be a Man), takes the Eucharist to the homebound, and helps a mom who cares for her quadriplegic son.  

Jody and John help a homeschool mom of five children; Jody sings in the Cathedral choir, hosts a women’s book group for young moms in their home, and serves as a lector for daily Mass twice a week. Eschewing the trappings that others might consider important in retirement, the Kuikens rent a townhome and live simply.  

There are many individual and collective Kuikens, quietly serving, quietly journeying. They walk the way of Mary. And like Mary's, their hidden service is the leaven that spreads faith and offers testimony to a neighbor that moves faith to action. 

The Kuikens and those like them make up the body of Christ's many parts. They spread faith, person to person, pilgrim to pilgrim. They support others — and are likewise supported — on their walk to Mary.   

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Copyright 2025 Frances Smit
Images: (top, center) courtesy of Jody and John Kuikens, all rights reserved; (bottom) courtesy of the National Shrine of Our Lady of Champion, all rights reserved.