Remember the Marginalized at Christmas

Anne DeSantis shares practical ways families can make a difference for people in need during Advent and beyond.

The Advent season is upon us — a time of prayerful anticipation marked by prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. Advent invites us to prepare our hearts for the coming of Christ. As we busy ourselves with buying gifts, baking, and decorating, let’s also focus on what truly matters: remembering the poor and those who suffer during the holiday season.

For us as Catholic mothers, it’s a beautiful opportunity to teach our children the importance of outreach to the marginalized and to show them how even small acts of love can make a big difference. Here are three ways to remember the marginalized this Advent season and beyond.

Mindfulness

Being mindful of those around us is a powerful way to remember the marginalized. The “poor” are not only those who lack material resources; they are also those who feel unseen or unloved. They may be in our neighborhoods, schools, workplaces, and even our own families. We don’t have to look far to find people in need.

This Advent, let’s teach our children to recognize and appreciate each person they meet, showing them that simple acts of awareness and kindness are powerful gifts we can offer every day.

Reaching out

As mothers, we often have our established circles of friends — whether they are neighbors, colleagues, or other moms. It’s easy to gravitate toward those who make us feel comfortable. Yet there may be someone on the outskirts of our circle who feels lonely or left out. Taking time to reach out to someone who seems to be a “loner” is a wonderful way to live the Advent spirit of love and acceptance.

Encourage your children to make friends with classmates who seem alone or invite someone new over to share in holiday festivities. You may find that extending your friendship can bring unexpected blessings to both you and the other person.

Don’t give up

During Advent and Christmas, we are often inspired to perform acts of kindness, which is a beautiful way to celebrate the season. However, making acts of virtue a lifelong habit is even better. By teaching our children to reach out beyond their comfort zones, we help them imitate Christ’s example of unconditional love and compassion. Encourage them to make this outreach a regular part of their lives, not just something they do for the holidays. Remind them that each small act of kindness is a reflection of God’s love, and when they offer friendship to someone who feels left out, they are truly sharing the spirit of Christmas.

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As Catholic mothers, we are called not only to find Christ ourselves but to guide our children in doing the same. Teaching them to remember the marginalized is a gift that will bless both your family and the world. This Advent season, let us make a commitment to be mindful, reach out, and not give up on loving those who may be easily overlooked. In doing so, we open our hearts to Christ’s presence today and always.

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