Merridith Frediani learns about fasting and explores a creative way to fast for those she loves.
This is the beginning of the story of the 2026 Fasting Experiment. It was born of a conversation with two friends, one of whom is single but would like that to change. The other friend, in what I can only assume was a moment of extreme optimism, said “we should fast for a whole year or something” for our friend and other friends who desire to find their spouses.
Gasp! A whole year? This is an epic endeavor for someone who has struggled with fasting and its purpose. I’m finally at a point where I can get through the Ash Wednesday and Good Friday fasts without resentment and/or failure. But a whole year? I’m not so sure. I told her I was open to workshopping the idea. She quickly responded that she means “fasting from peanut butter, not a Good Friday fast for a year.” Relief. That seemed manageable. And it got me thinking.

Fasting in the Bible
I do not understand why fasting is important and how it works. I do know it is often written of in the Bible. In Luke’s Gospel, we read of Anna who “worshipped night and day with fasting and prayer” (Luke 2:37). In the book of Joel, the Lord says, “Return to me with your whole heart, with fasting, weeping, and mourning” (Joel 2:12). In Ezra, “So we fasted, seeking this from our God, and it was granted,” (Ezra 8:23). And in Acts, “Then, completing their fasting and prayer, they laid hands on them and sent them off” (Acts 13:3). So in the spirit of obedience and trust, I fast knowing that God knows more than I do.
The Ash Wednesday and Good Friday fasts are hard for a reason. It is good to take those days for the sake of our interior penance, as the Catechism of the Catholic Church says in paragraph 1434. I’m okay with that challenge to kick me into the reality of Christ’s sacrifice. I also know that I need to do what I’m called to do, not more and not less.
Saint Catherine of Siena and Saint Joseph of Cupertino lived solely on the Eucharist for years. I imagine there are others God asks to undertake significant fasting from food. I am not one of those people but I suspect I’m being offered a challenge this year or more aptly, an opportunity to challenge myself and my trust in God.
For the past couple of months, I’ve been thinking about what the 2026 Fast Experiment could look like. How can I make this meaningful as well as attainable? Not too easy but not so hard it creates resentment? Challenging, but not kick-me-in-the-pants-difficult?
Defining the Experiment
I had to first define fasting. It has to be fasting from a good, not from something that is harmful and I’m trying to stop anyway. I drink alcohol moderately, so fasting from wine or beer would be noticed and missed but not because I'm drinking a lot and need to cut back. Alternatively, I love cookies and, honestly, sugar, and I know I need to detox myself from it. I don’t think that would count because my intention to not consume sugar is more selfish, than selfless. Calling it a fast for religious purposes might help me achieve my goal of having less sugar but it would be self-serving, not a sacrifice.
I feel like the point of fasting is to sacrifice for an intention. What good can I sacrifice? What can I go without in order to help someone else?
After defining the fasting I decided to break it into twelve one-month increments. Each month I will fast from a different thing. This will prevent the fast from becoming a habit and being forgotten. If I decide I’m fasting from almond butter and replace it with peanut butter that defeats the fast. Even though I don’t like peanut butter as much, it will be a suitable replacement over time and will no longer be a fast. Each month, one fast will end and another begin.
What will I fast from? Almond butter, of course. It’s my pre-workout protein boost so it will be missed. Other options include wine, beer, TV, crochet, dessert, sleep, and listening to music on my drive home from work. I’ll come up with a dozen and draw them from a hat each month.
The final question is: Why am I doing this? I’ll select an intention each month, beginning with my sweet friend who wants to stop being single. I’ll also include an intention for the intercession of our Blessed Mother that only she will know about. I’m hopeful that these intentions will help me stick to this resolution. I will likely never know what comes of this fasting, but I can trust that God will see it and there will be some good.

I’m writing this on January 1, and I’ll start with the almond butter. If you have any suggestions of what I could add, or if you want to join me in this experiment, feel free to leave a comment! I’d love the company and accountability. Stay tuned.
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About the Author
Merridith Frediani
Merridith Frediani loves words and is delighted by good sentences. She also loves Lake Michigan, dahlias, the first sip of hot coffee in the morning, millennials, and playing Sheepshead with her husband and three kids. Merridith writes for Catholic Mom, Diocesan.com, and her local Catholic Herald. Her first book, Draw Close to Jesus: A Woman’s Guide to Adoration, is available at Our Sunday Visitor and Amazon. You can read more at MerridithFrediani.com.

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