Explore the significance of love and attire in our spiritual lives, reflecting on our readiness for God's invitation to the heavenly banquet.
Today's Gospel: Matthew 22:1-14
There she was in the middle of the dance floor in her blue jeans and bright yellow t-shirt. The woman was not a family member or friend of our family nor of my daughter’s newly wedded husband. Not dressed in fancy wedding attire, the uninvited guest was a blatant misfit. Like the guest in today’s parable, she was escorted out of the venue--except there was no binding of limbs or grinding of teeth.
When we are invited to particular places or important events, certain behaviors are expected. Even our attire is imperative. It speaks to how significant we perceive the affair. Is this important enough to dress up for?
For instance, when we go to Mass, we are entering into the heavenly banquet room of the King. Does our dress reflect what we believe?
More important than outer garments, though, is what is inside. As Christians, we are to clothe ourselves in love. Rich and poor alike can afford to get all dressed up in love. For, just as in Jesus’s time, when the king supplied the guests with wedding garments, so now the King of kings supplies us with enough love to lavish on others.
Everything we do ought to be motivated by love – love for God, love for our family, love for our neighbor. Unlike our favorite outfits, love never goes out of style. It doesn’t get worn out like our most comfy pair of jeans. Nor does love ever become “soleless” as our best running shoes might. By the merits of His sufferings, death, and resurrection, Jesus continues to send grace upon grace on us.
So, let’s get dressed up, go to the King’s wedding banquet here on earth, get fed, and spread the love.
Ponder:
What was the last special occasion I dressed up for? How special is Mass to me?
Pray:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the invitation to the wedding feast of Your Son. I RSVP "yes!" Let me be ready when it is time to come.
Pray Together:
Invite an elderly neighbor or lonely friend over for a tea party. Get all dressed up and serve them.

Copyright 2026 Kelly Guest
About the Author
Kelly Guest
Kelly Guest is the author of Saintly Moms: 25 Stories of Holiness. For over 30 years, she has worked in various ministries in the Church, beginning with her five years as a Dominican sister. She is now the Director of Family Faith Formation at her parish. She lives with her husband Paul and their nine wonderful children in the rolling country hills of Maryland.

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