As an author who often helps out other authors, I’ve given too little time to promoting my beloved Dear God children’s book series. That’s a bit of an exaggeration because schools are using my children’s book series and parents have told me their kids couldn’t put it down, (so they had to take it away so they would go to bed) but I often leave it for last. So I hope you will not mind me sharing a touching review from Chad Judice, who I’ve helped out who is returning the kindness.
There’s nothing like reading a good book before bedtime. Especially for kids. Too often, the busyness of life leaves parents feeling that we have not done enough of one thing or another. Reading with our children rectifies much of that that. I found that reading the Dear God Series (Liguori Publications) by Patti Maguire Armstrong with my boys to be an especially rewarding note to end the day.
Humor and adventure amid deep Catholic values, were presented in everyday situations. It is the everyday things such as dealing with unanswered prayers and the battle between ego, God, and serving others, that spiritual battles hinge on. And it is those early childhood lessons on good behavior that never really quite leave us even as adults.
I originally met Patti over the phone when she interviewed me to write an article about my family’s journey from fear to faith. It was the beginning of a continuing friendship. Not only has she shared our own family’s amazing journey, but also her children’s books touch on many of the issues we have struggled with. For instance, I once struggled with accepting my will over God’s will and questioned why God would not answer my prayers.
In Dear God, I Don't Get It!, the oldest of three boys, Aaron Ajax, is informed that his father who has lost his job found a new one but it requires a move from Montana to North Dakota. Why bother praying when you don’t even get what you ask for, he wondered. Her subtle lessons on theological issues of redemptive suffering, aspiring to sainthood, and understanding that prayer is not about changing God’s will but rather discovering it are woven into a fun, exciting read. A favorite part in the book was Aaron wanting to be a hero like the saints and totally misusing a situation to draw attention to himself. He was soon humbled into admitting wrongdoing but learned that by being virtuous that we partakers in the divine nature of saints. The lesson comes across through Aaron setting up situations to appear as a hero only to have it fall apart. Then shortly thereafter, he becomes a situational hero—in the right place at the right time. Only later, when he sacrifices himself, risking losing popularity, does he experience true heroism, which is the road to sainthood.
“Whoever exults himself shall be humbled and whoever humbles himself shall be exulted.” Mt 23:12. The story ends with a happy ending and the realization that a friendship with God means trusting him to give us the grace we need for the life he has planned for us.
My ten-year-old gained valuable insights through both books but especially in Dear God, You Can't Be Serious. The plot in this book is about the middle child, Luke. When he finds out he will be home schooled in the upcoming school year, his pessimistic attitude and acting out leads him into two troubling (and humorous) situations. It is a lesson in letting go and not trying to control things that are beyond our control.
Finding himself adrift on a boat during summer vacation, Luke instinctively draws on prayer and his faith but the lesson is lost later on. Not until he outwits himself and puts himself into an embarrassing trap does he come to recognize how foolish pride can be.
As a father of three boys that range from 10 to 8 months, a perfectionist and control freak who has been sent an imperfect child in a situation he cannot control, and whose journey to full union with the Catholic Church is all wrapped up in redemptive suffering, Patti’s words in Dear God, You Can’t Be Serious hit a personal chord. You can’t control the situations you are in, but you can control the way you react to them; these concepts have a special place in my heart. There is something for everyone in these heartwarming books. I highly recommend them for all ages.
About Chad Judice: Chad Judice is an award-winning author and national Catholic speaker. You can learn more about Chad and check out his books at ChadJudice.com and follow him on Facebook, Twitter and YouTube.
Copyright 2015 Patti Maguire Armstrong and Chad Judice.
About the Author
Patti Maguire Armstrong is the mother of 10, and has a B.A. in social work and M.A. in public administration. Her newest book is Holy Hacks: Everyday Ways to Live Your Faith & Get to Heaven. Others include Big Hearted: Inspiring Stories from Everyday Families and the Amazing Grace Series. Follow her at @PattiArmstrong and read her blog at PattiMaguireArmstrong.com.