--- title: A Prayer for Moms and Dads Who Struggle With Sin and Regret description: Janet Moore offers a prayer for parents who have experienced struggles in their marriage and families. --- [![catholic-mom-logo-v2](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/images/catholic-mom-logo-v2.svg "catholic-mom-logo-v2")](https://www.catholicmom.com/) [![facebook](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-facebook.svg)](http://www.facebook.com/CatholicMomCommunity) [![twitter](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-twitter.svg)](http://twitter.com/CatholicMomCom) [![instagram](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-instagram.svg)](http://instagram.com/catholicmomcommunity) [![youtube](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/social-icon-youtube.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAuUqHCVPDzyMgSMaMZxxug?view_as=subscriber) [![search-icon](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/_catholicmom/icons/search-icon.svg)](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/2015/08/13/a-prayer-for-moms-and-dads-who-struggle-with-sin-and-regret#) # A Prayer for Moms and Dads Who Struggle With Sin and Regret Aug 13, 2015 3:00:12 PM  |  by [Guest](https://www.catholicmom.com/articles/author/guest) [![hands-407388_1280](https://www.catholicmom.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/hands-407388_1280-400x400.jpg?width=400&height=400&name=hands-407388_1280-400x400.jpg)](https://www.catholicmom.com/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/hands-407388_1280.jpg) Photo by DamiWurtz (2014) via Pixabay, CCo Public Domain. All of us regret things we have said, All of us regret times we have acted in anger, in selfishness, All of us regret the things we could have said or done, but didn’t. When our regrets way heavy on our heart And Satan is quick to condemn us To heap guilt upon us… Even as we strive to love God with all our heart.   I write this for the thousands of devoted, loving and imperfect Catholic moms and dads who (like me) have experienced struggles in their marriages and families – despite their best efforts and their endless prayers. I write this to remind ourselves of the words of Mother Teresa: > “God does not require that we be successful, only that we be faithful.” And to keep in mind: There is no more perfect, no more loving parent or spouse than God the Father -- and just look and see how many of His Children and His loved ones have rejected Him and gone astray. This tells us that we cannot control others. Nor can we undo the mistakes of the past. But our God is all-powerful! He has destroyed the power of sin and death for all who are repentant! And He can transform our lives into lives of glory when we acknowledge our sin and call on Him in faith and love. So, why are we cast down in shame and regret? Instead, God calls us to hope in Him, assured that: > "All things work together for good for those who love God." Romans 8:28 As well as the words of St. John Paul II: > “We are not the sum of our weaknesses and failures. We are the sum of the Father’s love for us and our real capacity to become the image of his Son…”  I share with you a prayer that came to me after years of praying on these things in Mass, with Scripture and in Adoration. *Dear Jesus,* * Help me to be gentle of heart* * Gentle with myself* * Help me to let go of perfectionism,* * Stress, oppressive guilt and pressure that I place upon myself* * To change things that I have no control over* * May these tendencies have no part of my thoughts, words, emotions or actions…**my life!* *Jesus and the Holy Spirit,* * Help me to* * Know and believe, **accept and receive* * The Father’s love.* *The Father’s love* * His arms enfolding me* * Whispering:* ***"Well done.*** ***I love you.*** ***You are enough.*** ***You are pleasing to me.*** ***Your desire is pleasing to me.*** ***I don’t expect perfection, *** ***Only the desire to love*** ***Only openness to receive my love*** ***Receive and know My Love for you*** ***I AM not displeased *** ***I AM here enfolding you [your marriage and children]*** ***I AM in Control*** ***Have no fear *** ***Be at peace*** ***Be at rest*** ***Allow me to love you*** ***Allow me to always forgive you*** ***I AM Love itself*** ***I do not seek to judge you but save you*** ***And bring you and your children into My embrace *** ***My inner life*** ***of Love, Joy, Power and Glory Unspeakable.*** ***I AM forgiveness and Mercy*** ***I AM All-Powerful and I write straight with crooked lines*** ***Be at peace *** ***All is well*** ***I AM at Work in your children [and spouse]*** ***I can do all things*** ***Fear is useless *** ***What is needed is trust*** ***Trust in my Fatherly care*** ***That will never yell at or deride you*** ***Or cause you to fear Me*** ***I AM perfect justice *** ***But ALL-LOVE with those *** ***who strive to live close to me.*** *** *** ***I AM with you!*** ***I love you!*** ***You are beautifully and wonderfully made*** ***Do not shirk back *** ***In fear and trembling*** ***I AM your Advocate*** ***Your Protector*** ***Your Spokesman*** ***Your Guardian and Refuge*** ***My LOVE is your refuge*** ***More enfolding than the most loving arms of any parent on earth.*** ***More accepting, *** ***More forgiving,*** ***ALL-Loving*** ***And Merciful!*** *** *** ***I AM your Father*** ***And you are mine*** ***Dearer to me than all the rest*** ***Dearer as ALL are dearer to me as if none other exists—*** ***As I have no favorites*** ***But ALL are perfectly dear *** ***BELOVED*** ***And CHOSEN.*** *** *** ***Made FREE!*** ***LIVE IN MY LOVE*** ***Do not be afraid!*** ***I AM with you*** ***I hold you close and *** ***Nothing can happen outside of My Will!*** ***Cease striving for control*** ***Do your best without striving endlessly*** ***And be at peace*** ***It brings Me much joy*** ***For you to glory in My Love *** ***And the beauty of My creation."***   Even in our sins and failures, can we trust in the Father's love for us? *Copyright Janet Moore 2015. 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