New School Year Angst: Lean on Family and God

Tammy Marino reflects on how cooler air and busier schedules can bring greater opportunity to connect with faith and family.

The start of a new school year is filled with fresh notebooks, sharpened pencils, new teachers and hopeful expectations. While there is something so beautiful about a new beginning, for many families those first days can bring a mix of excitement, uncertainty and stress.

New routines, busier schedules, changing friendships and academic challenges combine to create what can be a daunting start.

As parents, we naturally do all we can to prepare our children for success. We check supply lists, keep calendars updated and make sure backpacks are ready. But as Catholic families, we are also called to prepare our children’s hearts — and our own.

Placing Trust in God

Every new school year brings unique challenges. Perhaps a child starting kindergarten is learning to spend an entire day away from home. A middle-school student might be navigating shifting friendships and social pressures. A high-school student may be feeling the weight of college applications, extracurricular chaos or larger questions related to dating and potential exposure to peers engaging in unsafe activities.

At the same time, parents encounter struggles as we balance work, family, finances and the increasing demands of raising children in a rapidly changing world. It can be tempting to believe we must have every answer or solve every problem ourselves. 

Society places so much emphasis on self-reliance. But our faith reminds us that we were never meant to carry life’s burdens alone. 

Jesus invites us repeatedly to bring our worries, fears and hopes to Him. Every challenge we face as a family becomes an opportunity to lean on God’s grace. Rather than seeing obstacles as interruptions to our plans, we can see them as invitations to place greater trust in God.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, on your own intelligence do not rely; in all your ways be mindful of him, and he will make straight your paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

When we lean on God, and one another, the worries our children carry into the school year, and the challenges we bear, become opportunities for prayer, reflection and growth, and moments that strengthen our faith.

Small Practices Can Leave the Deepest Spiritual Impressions

The beginning of the school year is a chance to create habits that are family centered. Perhaps this is the year to commit as a family to attend a weekday Mass once a month together. Or maybe your family can decide to pray a decade of the Rosary on the drive to school. Institute a policy for no phones or distractions at family dinners. 

And while no school year unfolds exactly as planned, those imperfect moments — forgotten lunches, rushed mornings, difficult assignments, unexpected changes — can become opportunities to build a habit of grace. Modeling a “don’t sweat the small stuff” attitude can help kids to keep the ups and downs of their hectic days in perspective.

As we navigate the daily stresses of work, school and busy schedules, it is important to remember that every family carries burdens — some visible, some hidden and some unfolding far from us. While one family celebrates exciting milestones, another may be facing financial hardship, illness, grief or uncertainty. As people of faith, we are called to look beyond our own schedules by thinking of, praying for and helping those around us. 

Perhaps this school year is an opportunity to notice the family who needs a little encouragement. Quietly help with purchasing school supplies or offer a meal, a ride or a listening ear. 

Do nothing out of selfishness or out of vainglory; rather, humbly regard others as more important than yourselves, each looking out not for his own interests, but [also] everyone for those of others. (Philippians 2:3-4)

In other words, acts of charity often begin by paying attention. 

There are countless ways our families can become witnesses of God’s love within our schools and communities. Consider volunteering, supporting parish outreach ministries or helping teachers who give so much of themselves. Pray for classmates, educators and school staff. Even small acts of kindness, offered with love, reflect the Gospel in powerful ways.

One Family's Faith

One story that captures the strength of family, faith and perseverance is that of Reina, a mother from El Salvador. When her husband died suddenly, their son was only a year and a half. Overnight, Reina found herself carrying the weight of grief while also becoming the sole provider for her family. Faced with an uncertain future, she made the courageous decision to remain in her community alongside her mother-in-law, determined to build a new life for herself and her son rather than face the journey alone. 

Little by little, Reina began to build a path forward. Through the Unbound community, sponsorship helped her save money so her son, now 14, could continue his education, while also giving Reina the means to improve their home and start a small business selling clothing and household items. 

Like other families in the Unbound program, Reina used the Poverty Stoplight goal-setting methodology to set practical objectives, strengthen her business and steadily improve her family’s living conditions. 

Looking back, Reina recognizes that her resilience was rooted not only in her determination but also in faith. 

“There came a moment when I took hold of God’s hands and said, ‘No, I have to move forward, and I’m going to do it all for my son,’” Reina said.

That decision transformed her grief into purpose. Today, in addition to continuing to grow her business, Reina serves on her community Poverty Stoplight committee, helping others review and pursue their goals. 

She is quick to acknowledge that no family thrives in isolation. Reflecting on the support she and her son have received along the way, she said, “Thank God because he has touched good hearts, the ones who provide that small amount of help to each family.” 

Her story is a reminder that when families lean on one another, support their communities and place their trust in God, even the heaviest burdens can become the foundation for a hopeful future.

A Scholarship and a Dream

As a child in El Salvador, Dania received the opportunity to pursue her education through the Unbound Scholarship Program. With the support of her family and a commitment to hard work, she excelled academically. 

Now studying agricultural engineering, she continues to give back to her community with gratitude and a spirit of service. Dania’s journey is a reminder that when children are encouraged to grow in faith, family and perseverance, each new school year can become a chance to discover and nurture their God-given gifts and use them to bless others. 

“Everything we do is worth it,” Dania said. “God has a purpose for each of us. And just as we must strive every day, we as young people, as sponsored children, as scholarship recipients, must be aware that there are people behind this who also work hard so we can study and have opportunities… So, it’s about having that awareness, striving every day, and knowing I can’t give up because there are more people involved in this, too.”

As another school year begins, may we remember that success isn’t measured only by report cards, athletic achievements or busy calendars. The deeper goal is to help our children know they are loved — by their families and by God — and ensure they learn to love others in return. 

This new season is more than a return to routines — it’s another opportunity to grow in faith as a family, trust more deeply and allow God’s love to shape our homes one ordinary day at a time. May each morning begin with hope, each challenge be met with grace and each day bring us closer to one another and to God.

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