Seeking the Blessings Through the Tears

In the middle of difficult circumstances, Tami Urcia ponders how our trials can reveal God's mercy to us.

Have you ever heard the song “Blessings” by Laura Story? It beautifully depicts one of the greatest paradoxes of the Christian life.

’Cause what if your blessings come through raindrops?
What if your healing comes through tears?
What if a thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know you’re near?
And what if trials in this life are your mercies in disguise?

As I sit in a hospital room yet again with my son, who is experiencing post-op complications, I listen to this song over and over and let the tears fall. Are they healing tears? I have yet to find out. Have I had a thousand sleepless nights? It’s definitely been more than a few. Do I feel like this trial is God’s mercy? Absolutely not.

Yet who am I to predict the end of the story? Maybe I do need a few more nights of agony to realize how near God is to me through it all, how He wants to hold me close and wipe my tears away.

The song goes on to say,

The pain reminds this heart that this is not, this is not our home. It’s not our home! ...
What if my greatest disappointments, or the aching of this life, is a revealing of a greater thirst this world can’t satisfy?

Well, I am aching for sure. There is something basically unfair about watching a child suffer. It is times like these that truly make us long for heaven.

And how fitting to long for heaven during the month dedicated to the Sacred Heart of Jesus. We will never understand the depths of His love or why it is that the trials of this life are evidence of His mercy. These are just a couple of the mysteries whose answers will be revealed in heaven.

A few days ago, the Alleluia Antiphon stated: “May the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ enlighten the eyes of our hearts, that we may know what is the hope that belongs to his call.”

I pray that He enlighten the eyes of my heart. I need it so bad. I feel like my faith is so practical yet so little heartfelt. I live it day in a day out, but how much do I love within it? I love through actions, fulfillment of duty, yet when I am not able to carry out that duty due to headstrong children, a family member’s angry reaction or continuous illness, where is my love then? Where is my hope?

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Friends, our Lord has come to give us this hope and show us His fathomless love. Whether you are going through a storm right now as I am, or your raindrops have ceased for a season, I pray that the Lord show you the depths of His Sacred Heart. May you truly know the hope that belongs to your call to be His disciple and carry His love to others.

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